Living.. With.. Boyfriend..

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Hi, hi, hi. So I got a comment from someone asking if I am living with my boyfriend. (Thank you for your comment.) And yes, I am. I am living with my boyfriend. Wow, I never thought I would be saying that. I didn’t plan for it, it just happened.

So I moved a month ago. I moved to have a different life. And man did I get one. The first night I was here my boyfriend slept over. Then he slept over again, and then again and again. And he just never left. Which I was totally ok with. For awhile it was just him being here all the time cause we wanted to be together. But it became a little more then that. We were enjoying each other, we were enjoying having someone to come home to. So he officially moved in a few days ago. He brought over all his stuff and is paying half the rent and such.

It’s so weird. I used to live alone and watch TV all the time and eat popcorn for supper. But now there is someone else here. There is someone else sleeping in my bed. Someone else wanting to watch the TV and wanting to have decent meals. There is someone else to take care of and someone else to take care of me. It’s work, it’s more work then just taking care of yourself. But it’s also less work, it’s less work cause you feel like you are actually getting something back. Yes there is someone there to argue with and have to share shit with. But there is also someone there to hug and laugh with.

We have had some issues and we’ve had some awesomeness. We have not been together very long so there are still a lot of things that we don’t know about each other. And that has created more issues then we’d like. I’m not gonna talk about anything too intense because that’s just too stressful for me right now. But I will talk about maybe some more relatable, simpler issues. Like the other night I made him tuna casserole for dinner. Then found out he hates tuna…. That was horrible. We were both hungry and disappointed and it sucked. And ohh, in the morning I am always in a rush to get ready cause I sleep as long as I can. And sometimes he wakes up and goes to the bathroom and I need to brush my teeth! And I am standing outside the bathroom door like, ahhhh! Lol. And oh man I always gotta compromise on what we are going to watch, which I am not used to. I can’t just watch whatever I want. I also can’t just eat whatever I want. And I can’t sleep whenever I want. There’s another person to consider for everything. Which can be very hard, but kinda great too.

Just like I said there is also awesomeness in this. I get such good meals because there’s two people to feed now so we make proper suppers. I have something to do everyday. Even when I have nothing to do, I have something to do because there is someone else there. And sometimes that is great. I am tired of life being boring. Having another person makes things less boring. (Can be in a bad way too, but still less boring.) He also has friends, which gives me friends to hang out with. And we buy each other some food from the store when someone needs it. And there’s someone else to help with dishes. And to make the harder things in life potentially less hard. Cause there’s someone there for hugs.. And kisses.. And there’s just someone there to love you.

But man living with someone is work. But, living alone is work too. It is a different kind of work. I learned this when my friend stayed with me for a month. The main question you need to answer when thinking of living alone or with someone is, would you rather be lonely or annoyed ?? Think about it, it is the perfect question. Living alone is sooooo lonely, so lonely. Not always, but a lot of the time. And living with someone can be quite annoying, even when it’s great there can be a little bit of annoyance. (Especially for someone like me who kinda hates people.) But would you rather be lonely or annoyed ? I have been lonely for so long and I hate it, I hate it. I would rather be annoyed. I think being annoyed is worth having someone to life with. He’s life-ing with me man.

-Emily Grace (eroxursox)

2 Responses to “Living.. With.. Boyfriend..

  • Chandra
    4 years ago

    Good insight. The Bible says it’s not good for man (or woman) to be alone. So he created a partner. We r not design to be alone so it works to be together. Even in the bad times if u can resolve it there r good times too. I hope one day u can also see how God designed marriage to be good too. He created and understands man and woman and He knows what is the best for us.

  • Any chance you could have an open blog discussion on sexuality? Or what it is like? As a virgin I want to know these things. Unless it’s too personal but thanks for reading my comment Emily grace ????

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